The Joy of Uber Driving – A Wild Ride to Self Love©
Published by SheWrites Press
Updated News and Dates!
• Join me at my book launch: The Book Passage – Ferry Bldg., San Francisco June 26, 2019 @ 6 p.m.
• Plus a reading! Copperfields Bookstore – Sebastopol, Friday, June 28, 2019 at 7 pm.
• Read my article: The Heart of My Book – The Joy of Uber Driving, a Wild Ride to Self Love
• Look inside my book: CLICK HERE
• Marin Independent Journal has featured my story in the Entertainment / Lifestyle section of the Sunday edition August 10th: At 80, San Rafael woman finds Uber driving a ‘wild ride to self-love’ READ
As an Uber driver since 2016, I realized that I had a special mission: To be a source of light and levity touching every one of my passengers with truth, humor and unconditional love. I always thought I was going to do it on a grand scale with dreams of fame and fortune as a signer/actress using beautiful words and lyrics written by someone else. But it was not meant to be. Instead I’m able to impact a few people at a time on a personal level with the love and wisdom I’ve gained through years of conscious practice and growth. And now, I’m using Uber to deliver my memoir interspersed with intriguing, personal stories from my passengers that coincide with my own stories. I’ve named each chapter after a song from the 60’s 70’s and 80’s because of my deep love of music and of the meaningful songs of that period.
Being an Uber driver has opened up a whole new world to me where I relate to people of all ages and ethnicities and recognize that they are me. It has also given me a vehicle for my own transformation in that I’m able to stop myself from judging my riders or making assumptions about them before giving them a chance to reveal their true nature.
As shame fueled generations of women to not speak up, my story begins with a natural set up for feminine shame: (i.e.) when I was born, the name I was given was Frances Hamilton Redewill named after my father and my grandfather because I was supposed to be a boy named Francis Hamilton Redewill, lll,. They never even stopped to consider a girls name, but at least they changed it from Francis to Frances to comply with my gender. I believe that was the origin of my shame as a woman. As an adult many years later, my name would be changed by my spiritual master,, Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh, later known as Osho. He gave me the name Yamini meaning “Going beyond the night” into a life of consciousness.
In writing this memoir, it has made me connect the dots to so many seemingly incongruent events. I realized my life was about making the choice to live my life not somebody else’s. I can say without hesitation that by most standards, the choices I made in my 20s were from a fearless but scattered, unconscious, self-centered, and a low-self-esteem frame of mind. In my 30s and 40s I was an unhappy and confused spiritual seeker, who was unlucky at love, but unwittingly lucky to land a job as head of wardrobe at CBS. My 50s and 60s brought me to a place of many forms of creativity and leadership training in which I experienced new avenues of success and a new perception of what was possible for my life. However, I was still single and alone and not totally okay with it. Finally, in my 70s, I found the truth of who I am, why I am, and how true happiness and a youthful spirit has evolved and defined this woman known as Yamini.
As you read my story, you will discover that this is not a “ How to” book giving you everything you need to be skinnier, live longer, look younger or become financially rich and successful. It’s also not an epic love story with a Hollywood ending. It’s more like an “Eat, Pray, Love” mixed with “What the Bleep” kind of story that reveals the inner workings of a perpetually single woman manifesting sometimes devastating, usually melodramatic but always spiritually relevant events in her life that brings her closer to true happiness along with the existential joy of Uber driving. It is the unfolding of a bonafide #MeToo-er who evolved into a loving and self loved woman.
I listen to my Uber passenger’s stories. I hear some of their deepest longings. And so, knowing what is needed now, I am offering my memoir as a tribute to all the #MeTooers who have stood up and told their truth and to all the ones who will stand up in the future and to all the men who have daughters who care about their futures and to all the good men who truly know a woman’s worth and honor it.
Endorsements FOR JOY OF UBER DRIVING
“This is a portrait of one woman’s journey into self love that will reach to the very core of every woman’s heart. The raw honesty and insight Yamini shares with us through her challenges and interactions ignites the spark of hope in all of us. And you ll be taken over by her unexpected humor and her lightheartedness. Take the joyful ride and read this book it will delight you ! “ — Agapi Stassinopoulos, Best Selling Author, “Wake Up To The Joy Of You” with 52 Meditations and Practices For a happier and calmer life
“The evolution from victim-hood to self love is highlighted in this story of a 79 year old woman who loves spreading joy and conscious awareness through her daily service as an Uber driver. In A Wild Ride, Yamini pays tribute to each of her riders by relating their stories along with her own humor and compassion.” — Marci Shimoff, #1 NY Times bestselling author, Happy for No Reason and Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul
“A heartwarming and entertaining peak into the heart and soul of an Uber driver. Funny, poignant and refreshingly honest, Yamini Redewill has made certain that we will never take a ride from someone in quite the same way!” — Katherine Woodward Thomas, New York Times Bestselling Author of “Calling in The One”
The Joy of Uber Driving- “A Wild Ride to Self Love by Yamini Redewill” is a wild, nostalgic “soul retrieval” road trip that weaves true tales from her Uber driving experience (at age 78!) blended with her life-review in the rear-view mirror-stories. It skillfully blends humor, warmth, pathos, insight, and inspiration…and, at the very least, will give you an enormous respect for your next Uber driver. — Kelly Sullivan Walden – Dream Expert, Bestselling Author, “Chicken Soup for the Soul: Dreams & Premonitions”
“Uber drivers and passengers will enjoy the escapades of Yamini Redewill, as riders reveal their deep inner longings in the back seat of her Prius. Sometimes “therapist” and sometimes “cheerleader”, hearts are touched as Redewill shares stories from the lives of her passengers along with her own roller coaster journey to fulfillment.” —Randy Peyser, author of Crappy to Happy
“Yamini Redewill takes us on an insightful ride into her creative world interweaving life experiences with those of her passengers. A MUST READ!” — Judith Morton Fraser, Licensed Marriage, Family Therapist and author of “What’s So Good About ‘Bad’ Feelings?” sand “Grandmas Never Die”, on Amazon Books.
“Yamini has turned up the volume on her extraordinary life. You’ll be riveted by this memoir. Her storytelling, is at times intensely raw and insightful and at other times unexpectedly hilarious. Yamini weaves in meaningful Uber stories with her own personal stories.” — Jill Lublin, international speaker and 4x Best-Selling author. Master publicity strategist. JillLublin.com